A New Start for a Bogged-Down Blog
Hi My Wonderful Blogger Friends —
Yes, my blog did get ignored for a long time while I was
finishing my new book, “HE♥RTGASM!
– Increasing Intimacy & Ecstasy with Your Beloved.”© However, now that it’s been published I can get back to
business:
It’s very exciting to see the growing numbers of friends and
followers who visit my Facebook and Twitter pages and are finding out about “HE♥RTGASM!”
One of my short-term goals is to attend one of Steve Harrison's bi-annual National Publicity Summits in NYC where I will meet 80 - 100 of the top media producers face-to-face, thus increasing my ability to book some of the top TV and radio shows, as well as national magazines and newspapers. One good National TV talk show like Oprah, can put Heartgasm ‘on the map’ and literally make it a best-seller overnight.
Yes, you might say, “But everyone wants their book to be a best-seller. Why is yours different?” Here’s why: “HE♥RTGASM!” bucks the trend to
separate relationship books from books about sex and intimacy. Don’t these come together? Yes, in life, but “not necessarily” in the
book-publishing world. Excuse me,
this is an obvious “no brainer” that needs to be acknowledged in the arena of
well-written, distinguished, truly transformational and spiritually enlightening
books, which up to now, have been hard to find.
And just to prove to you that I know my stuff, I’ve decided to
place excerpts from “HE♥RTGASM!” in my blogs and also on my Facebook and
Twitter pages so you can see for yourself how singles and couples can benefit from
reading it. Here’s the beginning
of my book and I’ll continue to post more and more to make sure no one misses
how “HE♥RTGASM!” can help to transform the world…
“Sometimes seems like just yesterday
that I was lying in my bathtub with tears streaming down my face, “I don’t
understand why he won’t talk to me about sex. I can’t stand not having
sex for months at a time – it just doesn’t work for me. I wish there was
something I could do about it.”
But nothing I’d tried seemed to work.
Every day I would sit in my bathtub and cry.
Even though my husband and I owned a
beautiful Mediterranean villa overlooking the Hollywood Hills and had a
Mercedes and a Porsche in the garage, I was desperately unhappy.
That’s when I realized that money and
fame were empty and meaningless without being satisfied
with my inner-self and my relationship.
Practically virgins when we married, we
just didn’t know enough about sex to make it work. He kept telling me I was frigid.
I didn’t feel frigid but I didn’t have orgasms either and was beginning to
believe him.
We broke up for a period of time and I
went away and had an affair. For me it was a wonderful healing because I
realized that I was fully orgasmic and there was nothing wrong with me.
Thus began a new phase of my life in
which I spent a great deal of time trying to fix my relationship, fix myself,
and learn more about the spiritual side of life. And somewhere along that path
I decided that realizing enlightenment in this lifetime had become part of the
process.
My husband and I actually had a very
close connection because we had so much love for each other. We did everything
together, and if we had a break from work, we even had lunch together. We had
similar interests and similar tastes in art. If we’d been able to resolve our
sexual issues we might still have been together.
So why couldn’t we resolve our sexual
issues?
We were used to communicating on a very
shallow level. We didn’t have the skills or tools to communicate about
relationship issues. If we’d had that, along with the love we already felt for
each other, we might have been able to make things work.
That’s why the first section of this
book, Secret 1, has been designed specifically
to help you to resolve your relationship problems
through improving your communication skills – skills specific to opening your
heart.
Once you have the tools for expressing
your feelings, and asking your partner for what you would prefer, you will even
find that you can communicate better sexually. In these ways you can create more intimacy and enhance and expand
your heart connection.
By going through each of the five
secrets in the order in which they’re
presented, you’ll gain knowledge and
understanding that leads to building the intimacy and love that you seek.
Relating Through Love
Through “HEARTGASM!,” you will gain the
knowing that there is a way to have a great relationship and fabulous
sex by acknowledging your own sacred hearts and lives in partnership with your significant
other.
Essential in a great relationship is to
be introduced to your own inner Sacred Relationship. Through learning to
listen to the intuition of your heart, and finding the love within, loving
yourself becomes possible. This is the fast track to rise above the power
struggles of a relationship devoid of spirit and finding truly unconditional
love for your partner.
You will come to understand that love
is the greatest healer there is. It can truly liberate your
heart and soul, helping you to soar beyond petty differences, and instead,
allowing you to appreciate your individuality, free your creativity, and
re-create your world in a new paradigm of how real freedom can look.
You’ll discover that by reversing the
long-ignored feminine intuitive process, in both men and women, you can add
measurably to the way that both partners can experience equality, at the same
time playing on the beautiful and obvious differences between the sexes.
Becoming a Soul Couple
Perhaps
most importantly, through practicing the advanced
communication
skills in ““HEARTGASM!,” you can truly become a “soul couple,” where you and
your partner agree to going for the higher, greatest good – allowing you to
safely negotiate for what you both want as individuals, and as a couple –
actually getting what you want!
And
just in case you think that this book is just for couples, it isn’t. Even if
you don’t have a partner, what you learn will help you to avoid the pitfalls of
an uninformed relationship, and actually help you attract the right
partner.
Both singles and couples can
participate in experiential processes
that are fun and rewarding. You’ll learn techniques in how to ask for what you
want, especially in how you would like to be touched, thus leading to
greater appreciation, intimacy and a genuinely loving relationship.
There is also a juicy section devoted
just to sensual techniques – always performed in alignment with our Higher Selves, which can actually bring you to experiencing enlightenment.”
Please tune in for more to come…
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