tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4350978040407908182024-03-04T21:17:18.624-08:00Relate-Love-SexI created this blog for anyone who would like to rekindle their love connection. If you are miserable and don't know where to go with your relationship, then this is definitely for you! If you have already split-up or divorced, now is your chance to start anew with a whole new box of tools to make sure you get off on the right foot when you start over again.Toni De Marcohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03965762095049185002noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435097804040790818.post-25175044644842097732014-05-04T11:30:00.001-07:002014-05-05T01:26:21.149-07:00The Scary Part of Having Heaven on Earth<br />
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talked about taking 100% responsibility for your life and how that can give you
ownership of your own life. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Taking responsibility for even your unconscious patterns
allows you to own that you are sending out signals attracting matching
vibrations, good or bad.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">If you are responsible, not your parents, your mate, or
anyone else, you can start choosing which signals you want to sent out and that
is where we now begin…</span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Your Cherished Union
CAN Be Heaven on Earth<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Your Heart’s Unspoken Desire: Finding Relationship Heaven<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">What
does having heaven in your relationship mean to you?</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">What does it look
like? How many times a day do you say </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">“If only it were
this way?” “If only it were that way?” “Things</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">would be so much better if....” </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">So
much of what I used to wish for in my early relationships</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">had to do with “If
only the other person would....” “If only my mate were this way or that way.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">It was a surprise to
me to find out that it was probably not the other person that had to change,
but myself.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">I
didn’t think I asked for the life I was getting, but according </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">to the “Law of
Attraction,” on some level I did. I found out that life doesn’t just “happen to
you” – you beam it in, exactly according to your expectations and patterns.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">John Lennon noticed
that life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans. I wonder if he
learned, as I did, that life is a reflection of our deepest sub-conscious
thoughts through the law of attraction.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">You might call the law
of attraction the ABC’s of quantum physics, and according to this law, the
vibration that emanates from you attracts or brings in, a similar or
complimentary vibration. So what I was beaming out from myself is what I ended
up attracting.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">This is why the person
I needed to change was <i>me! </i>What I learned from my first metaphysical
teachers, Joel and Dr. Champion Teutsch, is that if you change yourself, then your
partner will shift accordingly. Abraham-Hicks, another metaphysical teacher,
calls this finding a vibrational match. The energy we emit from our inner core
can be perceived as a vibration and like-vibrations attract.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">By
stepping out of the little box in which I had lived my life,</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">I could begin to see
that, although the universe is infinite, like an infinity ribbon, it always
comes back around to its origin. Whether I thought this was fair or not, the
universe was always bringing analogous people, situations, things, </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">and
a life that I had “vibrationally”</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">asked for, back into my field.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Bookman Old Style'; font-size: 12pt;">Unless
you are making conscious</span><span style="font-family: 'Bookman Old Style'; font-size: 11pt;">
</span><span style="font-family: 'Bookman Old Style'; font-size: 12pt;">shifts in
your thinking and </span><span style="font-family: 'Bookman Old Style'; font-size: 12pt;">perceptions, you may not feel you </span><span style="font-family: 'Bookman Old Style'; font-size: 12pt;">are in control of your
own life. I definitely did not feel in control.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">It was a hard lesson
for me to adsorb, that when you consciously shift your vibrational field, the
people around you must shift or split away. Why? If that shift feels too </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">uncomfortable
for your partner (because their patterns will </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">necessarily have to change to reflect
your new vibration), that person may not be enough in “resonance” with you, and
will have no choice but to go a different direction. It </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">was
through my two back-to-back marriages that I got this </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">realization big time. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">My Two Completely Different Husbands and How They’re Being
Around Me Turned Them Into Raging Maniacs<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">In my first marriage,
I used to cry myself to sleep at night because the little amount of sex we had
in the beginning of our relationship had dwindled down to nothing. The last
vestiges of communication fluctuated between being ignored and being verbally
abused. Eventually, no sex was the outcome of no communication.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Interestingly
enough, my second marriage, even though my</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">next husband was completely different, turned
out almost exactly like the first one. I had the realization that if I had the
same outcome from both seven-year marriages, that it probably was not about
them, but something about me that attracted the same outcome. What signal or
vibration was I putting out to be treated like this – to be put down, verbally
abused, and not heard? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Hmmm, this sounded
familiar – so it wasn’t too hard to figure out. By that time I’d had years of
studying with my mentors, the Teutschs, and knew that almost all negative
patterns come from our parents. There was no doubt that since my father treated
me like this, (put me down, verbally abused me, and wouldn’t listen to what I
had to say) that I had attracted men who loved me so much that they gave me
exactly what I was unconsciously asking for. How scary was that? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Right after I finished this blog, I found the above synchronisticly-scary photo in the appendix of Ken Rochon’s book, “Becoming the
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">If this seems scary to you too, then it will be totally
appropriate to find out how to start correcting your vibrational signals so you
bring in what you really want, which, believe it or not, is what ScaryGuy is
about, only he uses different words.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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Toni De Marcohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03965762095049185002noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435097804040790818.post-42556408819237353672014-01-24T00:37:00.000-08:002014-01-24T00:37:43.680-08:00You Can’t Make Love Until You Make Peace <div class="MsoNormal">
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Before I launch into another excerpt from my book,
Heartgasm!, one of the most important sections has to do with getting old
“stuff” out of the way, so you can be in the moment with what’s going on in
your life in general, or your relationships, (or lack of) in particular.</div>
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If you’re still fostering old resentments from the past,
living in the shadows of deeply instilled patterns you’ve inherited from your
parents or your family, it’s time you started noticing when you’re thinking or
declaring things that you no longer really believe and don’t want to
perpetuate.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Letting go of an old
negative belief on the spot and replacing it with a more positive though can
become a great habit if you’re relentless in paying attention to what you think
and say.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Perhaps you have a friend
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Your heart knows what you want, and it’s up to you to open
the limitless possibilities it presents in your life — especially how you want
to feel in your intimate life, were you to just allow it:</div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Before Making Love,
Clear up the Past<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<i><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">How is “Making Love”
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intimate and requires opening your heart to loving your partner – sex is sex.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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definition and talk about sex combined with making love. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">How can you make love
to a partner you’re not getting </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">along with? Can you
make love if you aren’t talking to each </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">other? How do you get “off” upsets? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">What do you do when
one person wants sex and the other doesn’t? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">In this chapter,
you’ll be introduced to many tools that will help you to communicate better. It
is only when you can talk together peaceably that the relationship will expand,
grow, and give you the loving intimacy you so desire. In this way the two of you
can become greater than either one of you individually, and still both
retaining your unique individuality. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<i><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">My First Marriage<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Let’s go back to that
time when I was desperately unhappy and spent hours in the bathtub, gazing out
over the valley below, wondering if I would ever be happy again, and not </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">knowing
how to tell my husband what was wrong. He didn’t </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">seem to want to listen to me about sex.
He had heard it all before and he just didn’t want to go there. What could I do
to make him change?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Now, many years later,
I realize that I was fixated on how I could change him, not about what I could
change about myself. It has taken me many years to realize that you can </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">never
make anyone change. I used to think that I could use </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">positive thinking to
change my partner.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Since everyone has
free will, your partner has to decide they <i>want </i>to change. In fact, the
more you push against someone, the more likely they will resist change. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">The only way you can
influence another to change is to <i>be </i>the change you want to see in them.
By being and acting who you hope others would be, they can see how well it </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">works
for you and decide to go there with you. On the other </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">hand, because you are
both now operating on different vibrational levels, the other person might well
decide to go elsewhere – it’s entirely up to them. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">In romantic
relationships, chances are, that you both </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">fantasized that the
other person had qualities you imposed on them, and only later, when the
initial feelings of euphoria</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">had
faded away, realize that you barely know that person, and often, that you wish
you <i>didn’t </i>know that person as well as you do now.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">What
to do? A relationship can only work if both people are ready, willing and able
to change, or at least be willing to talk about why things aren’t working.
Willing communication is</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;">
</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">the key
to most of what you will learn in this book.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">At some point, you may
realize that you really <i>don’t </i>belong with this person, because there is
just no opening for negotiation. If it’s “my way or the highway,” maybe it <i>is
</i>time to move on. The Irish Catholic family pattern in the era when my
parents got together was, that women don’t have a say. When my dad made a
decision, that was it – it became the rule. My mom was expected to obey his
every edict. Hopefully we’ve come a long way since those days, but many
families still operate from this old paradigm.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">It is not really
satisfying for either person. Ideally, both people in a relationship are equal.
Only then can a </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">relationship grow to heights of ecstasy beyond
what gender-</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">
restricted relationships offer. This is not to say that women and men aren’t
different – just equal in their rights as human beings. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">If, at any point in
this process, you reach an impasse with your partner, try to process through
the problem with the materials offered in this book. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Remember, this won’t
work if only <i>one </i>of you wants to do it. You <i>both </i>have to be
willing to look at the problems and be willing to make some changes. Both of
you have to take 100% responsibility because the law of attraction is operating
at all levels of your life. You can’t go searching on the outside for what’s
wrong. You might ask yourself, “What signal is it that I’m putting out to
attract the abuse I’m receiving?” <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">“Am I taking
responsibility for what’s coming my way, especially from my partner?” It’s only
when you take 100% responsibility for your own life that things can change. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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definition of insanity is? It’s when you keep doing things the same way
expecting different results. </span></div>
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predicaments in your relationships, please share your thoughts and feelings.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Or maybe you have a “change of heart”
story you’d like to share.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And, as
always, I appreciate your sharing this post on Twitter and Facebook (globaltoni
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Have
you ever felt depressed about seemingly uncontrollable events happening in your
life and started to “dis” yourself, i.e. start beating yourself up mentally for
having allowed a stressful event to happen?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A friend of mine and I were talking about this last night,
and although learning to love yourself — even in this most desperate of
circumstances, is eventually needed to move out of this situation.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">But
this may not be where you are able to go. What might be easier is to forgive
yourself — forgive yourself for having been responsible for your part in this
creation — and then of course, to forgive all other people places, things, and
events that you might be blaming.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Here is an excerpt from my book, </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style";">“HEARTGASM!
– Increasing Intimacy & Ecstasy with Your Beloved”</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 8.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">©
</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">about
forgiveness:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Forgiveness – Severing
the Ugly Cords <o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Binding the Past to
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<i><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Forgiving the
Unforgivable Requires Opening Your Heart to Yourself <o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Forgiveness is prime
among the things you can do to clear a space in your consciousness and get on
with your life. Mental garbage clutters up our mental space and makes it </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">hard
to think clearly. I once took a course in energy healing</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">and through
visualizing what “thoughts” might look like if you could see them, we became
familiar with “thought </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;">forms.”
I </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">soon started to think of negative thought forms as</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">dark little boxes of
energy floating around in one’s aura. A really practiced psychic practitioner
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you and your partner cleared a space for the possibility</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">of sex, or are you
still mad at each other? Chances are, a couple’s being mad at each other starts
with being adamant that <i>you </i>are right. So much so in fact, that you must
make the other person wrong. With this attitude, there is no space for
forgiveness or negotiation. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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forgiveness is just the beginning of a process where you will begin to see that
it is not the other person, but you that you are not forgiving. Once you can
begin to forgive your self, you will soon see that not forgiving the other
person is just holding you back from a happy and fulfilling life. </span></div>
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<i><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">“Resentment is the kind of anger that you carry around for
a long time. It is like a hot coal that you pick up and intend to throw at
somebody else, but the whole time it is burning you. We give up a lot of energy
by holding on.”<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">The following is a good
example of not being able to forgive. Almost everybody has some relative that
did something so </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">horrendous to them, that they will never, ever
forgive them.</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;">
</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Unfortunately,
this gives deceased relatives the power to continue hurting us all our lives,
even though those people may have been dead for 20 years.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">At a workshop I
facilitated in Mullumbimby (a little village </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;">near Byron </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Bay),</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Australia,
there was a woman, Anna, who</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">was
unable to forgive her whole community, including her mother and entire family.
They were holding something against her for which she did not feel responsible.
She felt she was completely right, and all the rest of them were completely
wrong in unfairly judging her.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">When asked how heavy a
weight this was to carry around, you could see just by her body language that
it was unbearably heavy. She said this had ruined her life, and even though she
had long left this place behind, on being questioned, she admitted that she
dragged it along behind her everywhere she went. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">“What
if you could forgive your community,” I posited, “and</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">you could let go of
this old baggage you are dragging around? You know, you are not hurting <i>them
</i>by being unforgiving. It is you, <i>yourself, </i>that you are hurting. How
</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">much more hurt and pain are you willing to keep submitting</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">yourself to?” </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">She then flew into a
rage, which very soon broke down into a flood of tears, all the while sobbing,
“I cannot forgive them! What they have done to my reputation and to me is
un-forgivable.” <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">I
held her while she continued sobbing, reminding her that it was her choice to
give it up – that she could keep holding</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">on to it as long as she wanted to.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">After a few minutes,
she sat up and dried her tears and announced, “You are right. I don’t want to
feel like this any more. I don’t want to forgive them, but I will.” </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">“And who else are you
willing to forgive?” She immediately knew it was herself that she also had to
forgive. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">At that point I guided
the entire group through the </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;">“</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">forgiveness process</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;">,” </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">which
I had the young lady in question</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">read out loud. Nothing could have more clearly
demonstrated the forgiveness process, than what the entire group had not only
witnessed, but participated in, just by holding the space for this amazing
breakthrough to happen. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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think we can all now agree with Mother Theresa who said</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;">, </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">“We know that if we
really want to love we must learn to forgive.” </span></div>
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<i><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Who is it that you
have to forgive? Is it un-forgivable? Why? <o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Getting out paper and
pen again, write what & whom you </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">consider
“unforgivable.” An example of something you might</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">write could be, “I can’t forgive my mother for
what she did to me.” </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Why is being right
more important than “getting off it” and getting on with your life? When are
you going to be so sick </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">and tired of dragging your old baggage
around that you are</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt;">
</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">willing
to give it up? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Once you have
determined who in your own life you need to forgive the most, I suggest going
through a process forgiving all people, places, things, and events tied into
your feelings of not wanting to forgive — part of which is forgiving yourself.
Then continue to do this every day for the next week, or as often as is
necessary, to let go of the old baggage of “un-forgiveness” you are dragging
behind you everywhere you go.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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In closing, I encourage your comments about this post.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If you’ve got people you need to
forgive, please share your feelings about this.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Or maybe you have a forgiveness story you’d like to
share.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And, as always, I
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Love and blessings,</div>
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Toni</div>
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Toni De Marcohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03965762095049185002noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435097804040790818.post-75508709603843872142013-10-24T15:39:00.000-07:002013-10-24T15:39:50.450-07:00The Evolution of My Own Life Became My Book’s H.E.A.R.T. System<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .1pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: .1pt;">
Hi Friends —</div>
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I hope you liked my re-entry into the blogosphere, and
hopefully you’ve been inspired with some fresh, new ideas about how to have a
better relationship through the excerpts from my new book, “HE<b><span style="color: red; font-family: Gulim; mso-bidi-font-family: Gulim; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial;">♥</span></b>RTGASM! – Increasing Intimacy
& Ecstasy with Your Beloved.”<span style="font-size: 8.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">©</span> More follows, and I’m looking forward to seeing you here when
you can break away for a breath of fresh air..<span style="font-size: 8.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">“<b>The Evolution of My Own Life Became My Book’s H.E.A.R.T. System </b></span></div>
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In revealing my five simple and practical secrets to light
your relationship on fire, I share with you my personal journey from failed
partnerships to relationship success, illustrating how the principals in
“HEARTGASM!” can take your sacred union to the next level of fulfillment.</div>
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These five secrets are really simple and are guaranteed perk
up your relationship, however, depending on where you are starting, they may or
may not be easy. Nonetheless, I promise you, that if you practice each of these
secrets in the order that they are presented, it won’t take you long to have a
growing and thriving partnership. </div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: SegoePrint; font-size: 12.0pt;">My Steps Along the Way<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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Having been in the public eye for years, I am well
positioned and finally experienced and wise enough, to be the spokesperson who
nurtures people into taking this leap into higher consciousness. My career as a
relationship guru evolved out of my own experiences, starting out with five
years of scholarship-awarded university studies, evolving to becoming a super-model
cover girl, and eventually actress, author, and producer. Getting here was not
always easy nor was it always a straight path.</div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: SegoePrint; font-size: 12.0pt;">Growing Up<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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When I was very young, it was supposed to work like this:
Your knight in shining armor sweeps you up on his stallion and together you
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But by the time I was seven, I had developed this nagging
suspicion that maybe things wouldn’t be so perfect after all. By then I had
decided that my parents were full of s**t and that grownups couldn’t be
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Still, I had hope. All those romantic novels I had read in
my teen years couldn’t have been wrong, could they? They depicted lovers having
this beautiful spiritual bonding, holding them together regardless of the problems
which beset them, and which in fact, cemented the love between them even
greater than before. But as you will see in the upcoming chapters of this book,
that’s not the way it turned out. </div>
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My life’s path to find my dream of spiritual partnership grew
out of my need to fix my parents, and therefore to fix my relationships and
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Thus commenced my life-long search to understand what makes
people tick, which is probably one of the reasons I initially decided to become
an actress. From the time of about age18 on, I launched into an intense study
of everything holistic I could get my hands on. Over the last 40 years my
background has grown to include an extensive knowledge of psychology,
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Connecting from the
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Perhaps people start out their relationship-life all
backwards – I certainly did. First they have sex, then they fall in love, and
then they realize that they can’t talk to each other. Chances are if you’re not
talking, you’re not having sex. That’s why in “HEARTGASM!,” I propose you first
learn how to relate, and then how to love (especially how to love yourself) –
both of which finally enhance your sex life. Not that you can’t do it the other
way, but you’d better have relationship-tools as a back up when the honeymoon
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How would you like to be able to have a perfect intimate
relationship in which you have loving ecstatic sex? In everyone’s heart of
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In modern cultures, the desire of a man to become wealthy is
often behind wanting to attract the perfect wife. Conversely, a woman’s desire
to be beautiful is often to attract the perfect husband. Dr. Hyla Cass says
“This is biologically built in: Men want beautiful women – healthy
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Like in David Byrne’s lyrics, “Once in a Lifetime,” people
work all their lives to achieve their dreams and wake up one day with the
realization that the life they’ve created – with the perfect wife, house, and
car – isn’t what they really wanted after all, and they can’t compute how
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This book was created to help people to find themselves
through their hearts, to learn to relate to their loved ones through their
hearts (and whether married or single), to transform their relationships into
heaven on earth. </div>
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Welcome to this journey to finding yourself – and in so
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Toni De Marcohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03965762095049185002noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435097804040790818.post-9509545514273396922013-10-21T15:53:00.001-07:002014-03-29T15:51:28.561-07:00A New Start for a Bogged-Down Blog<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .1pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: .1pt;">
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Hi My Wonderful Blogger Friends —</div>
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Yes, my blog did get ignored for a long time while I was
finishing my new book, “HE<b><span style="color: red; font-family: Gulim; mso-bidi-font-family: Gulim; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial;">♥</span></b>RTGASM!
– Increasing Intimacy & Ecstasy with Your Beloved.”<span style="font-size: 8.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">© </span>However, now that it’s been published I can get back to
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It’s very exciting to see the growing numbers of friends and
followers who visit my Facebook and Twitter pages and are finding out about “HE<b><span style="color: red; font-family: Gulim; mso-bidi-font-family: Gulim; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial;">♥</span></b>RTGASM!”</div>
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One of my short-term goals is to attend one of Steve Harrison's bi-annual National Publicity Summits in NYC where I will meet 80 - 100 of the top media producers face-to-face, thus increasing my ability to book some of the top TV and radio shows, as well as national magazines and newspapers. One good National TV talk show like Oprah, can put Heartgasm ‘on the map’ and literally make it a best-seller overnight. </div>
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Yes, you might say, “But everyone wants <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">their</i> book to be a best-seller. Why is yours different?”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Here’s why: “HE<b><span style="color: red; font-family: Gulim; mso-bidi-font-family: Gulim; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial;">♥</span></b>RTGASM!”<span style="font-size: 8.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;"> </span>bucks the trend to
separate relationship books from books about sex and intimacy.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Don’t these come together?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yes, in life, but “not necessarily” in the
book-publishing world.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Excuse me,
this is an obvious “no brainer” that needs to be acknowledged in the arena of
well-written, distinguished, truly transformational and spiritually enlightening
books, which up to now, have been hard to find.</div>
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And just to prove to you that I know my stuff, I’ve decided to
place excerpts from “HE<b><span style="color: red; font-family: Gulim; mso-bidi-font-family: Gulim; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial;">♥</span></b>RTGASM!”<span style="font-size: 8.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;"> </span>in my blogs and also on my Facebook and
Twitter pages so you can see for yourself how singles and couples can benefit from
reading it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Here’s the beginning
of my book and I’ll continue to post more and more to make sure no one misses
how “HE<b><span style="color: red; font-family: Gulim; mso-bidi-font-family: Gulim; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial;">♥</span></b>RTGASM!”<span style="font-size: 8.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>can help to transform the world…</div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">“Sometimes seems like just yesterday
that I was lying in my bathtub with tears streaming down my face, “I don’t
understand why he won’t talk to me about sex. I <i>can’t stand </i>not having
sex for months at a time – it just doesn’t work for me. I wish there was
something I could do about it.” </span><span style="font-family: Times; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">But nothing I’d tried seemed to work.
Every day I would sit in my bathtub and cry. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Even though my husband and I owned a
beautiful Mediterranean villa overlooking the Hollywood Hills and had a
Mercedes and a Porsche in the garage, I was desperately unhappy. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">That’s when I realized that money and
fame were empty </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">and meaningless without being satisfied
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Practically virgins when we married, we
just didn’t know enough about sex to make it work. He kept telling me I was frigid.
I didn’t feel frigid but I didn’t have orgasms either and was beginning to
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">We broke up for a period of time and I
went away and had an affair. For me it was a wonderful healing because I
realized that I was fully orgasmic and there was nothing wrong with me. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Thus began a new phase of my life in
which I spent a great deal of time trying to fix my relationship, fix myself,
and learn more about the spiritual side of life. And somewhere along that path
I decided that realizing enlightenment in this lifetime had become part of the
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">My husband and I actually had a very
close connection because we had so much love for each other. We did everything
together, and if we had a break from work, we even had lunch together. We had
similar interests and similar tastes in art. If we’d been able to resolve our
sexual issues we might still have been together. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">So why couldn’t we resolve our sexual
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">We were used to communicating on a very
shallow level. We didn’t have the skills or tools to communicate about
relationship issues. If we’d had that, along with the love we already felt for
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">That’s why the first section of this
book, Secret 1, has been </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">designed </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">specifically
to help you to resolve your relationship</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">problems
through improving your communication skills – skills specific to opening your
heart. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Once you have the tools for expressing
your feelings, and asking your partner for what you would prefer, you will even
find that you can communicate better sexually. In </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">these ways you can create more intimacy and enhance and </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">expand
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">presented, you’ll gain knowledge and
understanding that leads to building the intimacy and love that you seek. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Relating Through Love </span></b><span style="font-family: Times; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Through “HEARTGASM!,” you will gain the
knowing that there <i>is </i>a way to have a great relationship <i>and </i>fabulous
sex by acknowledging your own sacred hearts and lives in partnership with your <i>significant
</i>other.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Essential in a great relationship is to
be introduced to your own <i>inner </i>Sacred Relationship. Through learning to
listen to the intuition of your heart, and finding the love within, loving
yourself becomes possible. This is the fast track to rise above the power
struggles of a relationship devoid of spirit and finding truly unconditional
love for your partner. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">You will come to understand that love
is the greatest healer </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">there is. It can truly liberate your
heart and soul, helping you to soar beyond petty differences, and instead,
allowing you to appreciate your individuality, free your creativity, and
re-create your world in a new paradigm of how real freedom can look.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">You’ll discover that by reversing the
long-ignored feminine intuitive process, in both men and women, you can add
measurably to the way that both partners can experience equality, at the same
time playing on the beautiful and obvious differences between the sexes. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Becoming a Soul Couple <o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Perhaps
most importantly, through practicing the advanced</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">
</span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">communication
skills in ““HEARTGASM!,” you can truly become a “soul couple,” where you and
your partner agree to going for the higher, greatest good – allowing you to
safely negotiate for what you both want as individuals, and as a couple –
actually getting what you want! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">And
just in case you think that this book is just for couples, it isn’t. Even if
you don’t have a partner, what you learn will help you to avoid the pitfalls of
an uninformed relationship, </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">and actually help you attract the right
partner. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Both singles and couples can
participate in experiential </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">processes
that are fun and rewarding. You’ll learn techniques in how to ask for what you
want, especially in how you would </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">like to be touched, thus leading to
greater appreciation, intimacy and a genuinely loving relationship.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">There is also a juicy section devoted
just to sensual techniques – always performed in alignment with our </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Higher Selves, which can actually bring you to experiencing </span><span style="font-family: "Bookman Old Style"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">enlightenment.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Toni De Marcohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03965762095049185002noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435097804040790818.post-88862111748295083882012-02-02T23:17:00.001-08:002012-03-25T15:19:50.991-07:00How I Got My Perfect Book Title, “HE♥RTGASM – Increase Intimacy and Ecstasy with Your Beloved”©, & Excerpt from Chapter 1, Hands on Heart Process<div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYX0q0C4uDcPAu_IIzhTXXYwU4dbQFNnhRjrqTvPRxtKhBXVgxGpKkV21GIYcIr26VZJJdR210bQl8sisIn6660fH06RRw1Bn1ZT0oKro4ghzFTlxYrb3Ug04YZcb6UD4q9WvyS3fUC0E/s1600/Toni+&+Robert+Pink+PostIts+Best.PS.03-25-12.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="260" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYX0q0C4uDcPAu_IIzhTXXYwU4dbQFNnhRjrqTvPRxtKhBXVgxGpKkV21GIYcIr26VZJJdR210bQl8sisIn6660fH06RRw1Bn1ZT0oKro4ghzFTlxYrb3Ug04YZcb6UD4q9WvyS3fUC0E/s320/Toni+&+Robert+Pink+PostIts+Best.PS.03-25-12.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p>In line with “giving away my best content” for free, over the next few months, I’ll be posting some of my best segments directly from my new book, “HE<b><span style="color: red; font-family: Gulim; font-size: x-small;">♥</span></b>RTGASM – Increase Intimacy and Ecstasy with Your Beloved”© due out in April with Hay House’s Balboa Press. In case you didn’t notice, this is the most recent version of my book title, which I have to admit, changes more frequently than I change my hairdo.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjbPSsOfd752eBs-mGVVxGGE67y16nwxuzwvDWQa5bumh3xwPMrBS9jpJLDWwiDqvkpJr8ZHohD3BF19QNenuukfk3_D-k4dd3yHD58GATSnD1PL_NAvE-h6PGBRZ7GsIAJHtoqH9lsSw8/s1600/Toni+&+Bob+Celebrate+HEARTGASM.01-21-12.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="188" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjbPSsOfd752eBs-mGVVxGGE67y16nwxuzwvDWQa5bumh3xwPMrBS9jpJLDWwiDqvkpJr8ZHohD3BF19QNenuukfk3_D-k4dd3yHD58GATSnD1PL_NAvE-h6PGBRZ7GsIAJHtoqH9lsSw8/s200/Toni+&+Bob+Celebrate+HEARTGASM.01-21-12.jpg" width="200" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Here is a little story about the new title, which everyone agrees is a winner -- at least everyone in Robert Allen’s great 3-day seminar. Let me explain….</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“<b>HE<span style="color: red; font-family: Gulim; font-size: x-small;">♥</span>RTGASM – Increase Intimacy and Ecstasy with Your Beloved</b>,” my new book title, was the MIRACLE that happened at Robert Allen’s Multiple Streams of Income Seminar this last weekend: </div><div class="MsoNormal"></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Little did I know that we would spend the whole first day working on getting the perfect book title, a subject dear to his heart, since Robert Allen’s first book, “Nothing Down,” was on the New York Times best-seller list for over 10 years running. And his more recent book, co-penned with Mark Victor Hansen, <span style="font-size: 11pt;">“ </span><a href="http://www.robertgallen.com/enlightenedmillionairechallenge.php"><span style="color: #0000f1; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: x-small;">The One Minute Millionaire</span></a><span style="font-size: 11pt;">,”</span> also did extremely well. Not to mention the ten or so books in between. It all begins with a book with a great, “hooky” title.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p>I smugly felt very that I already had a great book with a great title, and that it would be a snap to create a book-cover poster that everyone would love. Running in from lunch at the last minute, I scribbled my cover and just barley got it up on the display wall, running in a big circle around the conference room. Unfortunately, going clockwise, the only space left was the last spot at the far end of the circle.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p>We were supposed place 1 of 3 pink post-it notes on the titles we liked. And we were to use 3 blue post-its for the titles we didn’t like.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I was so certain that I had the perfect title for my new book that I was shocked when my title didn’t seem to work with my group. No one put any stickers at all on mine, so I put on one of my own pink stickers. My book didn’t get noticed at all, and quite frankly, even if people hadn’t liked it, that would have been better than not being noticed at all. The writing was “on the wall” so to speak. By the end of the day, I finally had to admit that I needed a more compelling title. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Robert’s coaching included the suggestion that “if your title hasn’t worked today, make it your intention when you go to bed tonight, that when you wake up in the morning, that you will have your new book title.” I immediately made a note to myself to do that.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">That evening driving home, out of nowhere, the word “Heartgasm” popped into my head -- a very clear “download” of a title. And immediately after, the sub-title dropped in. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgn80fYek4sBUtSnOc2edi8hHK6pUz4Zoq4HmofEJagaRApelVsGZOiIe5p2OIfElDQOm0jrcdfD3o8k7x2MBj5qLcY79k3nh7S-iMFw8j2qi2iDiHc_rCcNvmcXws-9xaHR62Thxk5aw0/s1600/Toni+Gets+Pink+Like-tagged+in+R-A+Class.PS.01-21-12.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgn80fYek4sBUtSnOc2edi8hHK6pUz4Zoq4HmofEJagaRApelVsGZOiIe5p2OIfElDQOm0jrcdfD3o8k7x2MBj5qLcY79k3nh7S-iMFw8j2qi2iDiHc_rCcNvmcXws-9xaHR62Thxk5aw0/s200/Toni+Gets+Pink+Like-tagged+in+R-A+Class.PS.01-21-12.jpg" width="174" /></a>The next morning when asked if any of us had gotten any “Ah, ha’s!” my hand shot up in the air and Robert called on me. I told my whole story in front of the class, ending with announcing the new title, “HEARTGASM.” </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Everyone started hooting and clapping -- one gal ran up and plastered pink post-it notes all over my body. People were roaring with laughter. When prompted for a sub-title, I said “That got downloaded next -- ‘Increase Intimacy and Ecstasy with Your Beloved’.” They obviously loved that too, and another gal ran up, also plastering me with pink post-its -- an uproariously funny moment that convinced me that “this must be THE ONE.” It was the highlight of the day.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p>Now that everything has calmed down, I’ve decided to keep “Relate>Love>Sex” as the brand-name for all my products and services in my leveraged progression plan, each with their own titles, like the book.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Let’s get back to the part of this blog that you will love, because you are going to learn a process you can do with anyone: your partner, spouse, friend (same sex ok), your parent, your sibling, your boss, your self – anyone. It’s called the “Hands on Heart Process,” and it magically creates a loving connection to who ever is willing to do it.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><u><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Hands on Heart Process<o:p></o:p></span></u></i></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAWZdOXO6dpBaXIqXBMXEA5q_gOR2EK5GdZhawwpz0Azt1buCTVieF8gN5o1tIBRYsxTjyggXyLh7_HzhJHgF1JNMTefCGjynljL1HRTAmsWZMrcitQe6vDiDbSC9E_yMVto7eq7xv2pw/s1600/Natalie&David.cropd%232.tif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAWZdOXO6dpBaXIqXBMXEA5q_gOR2EK5GdZhawwpz0Azt1buCTVieF8gN5o1tIBRYsxTjyggXyLh7_HzhJHgF1JNMTefCGjynljL1HRTAmsWZMrcitQe6vDiDbSC9E_yMVto7eq7xv2pw/s200/Natalie&David.cropd%232.tif" width="150" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Bookman Old Style'; font-size: 15px; line-height: 22px;">The first process I encourage readers to do, is to find a partner, whether it be a friend or a lover, who you can learn to connect with at your heart center. This helps get you right into the basic premise of relating from the heart. If no one is available, do it with yourself, sitting cross-legged in front of a mirror.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Bookman Old Style'; font-size: 15px; line-height: 22px;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 15px;">Since my “Hands on Heart” process can be done with a friend or lover, it’s not about sex (it can even be done with two same-sex people) -- it’s about connecting body, soul, and heart. This instant connection shows that we are all made of the same stuff – we are all the same inside.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>[This photo taken from a “hands on heart” demonstration from my DVD, “Tantric Partner Yoga,” <span style="font-family: 'Bookman Old Style';"><a href="http://www.tantrapartneryoga.com/">http://www.tantrapartneryoga.com/</a> (co-produced with Robert Frey)]</span></i></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-family: 'Bookman Old Style'; font-size: 12pt;"><br />
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</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 31.5pt; margin-right: 13.5pt; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 31.5pt; margin-right: 13.5pt; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">• Then imagine that what you see behind your closed eyes is the color of your combined heart energies. You might even describe to each other what colors you are seeing. For example, people often see darks and purples, somewhat interspersed with energy bursts of subdued pinks, golds, and whites. There is no right or wrong in this, only that you use your imagination to describe the heart energies you are feeling between the two of you. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 31.5pt; margin-right: 13.5pt; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 31.5pt; margin-right: 13.5pt; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 31.5pt; margin-right: 13.5pt; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">• Next, without moving your hands, open your eyes and gaze into your partner’s eyes. Since the left eye represents the feminine or receptive side, it is even more effective to gaze into each other’s left eye. This may be a bit uncomfortable at first, because people are not usually so direct. But stay with it and imagine that you are looking directly into their soul.</span> <span style="font-size: 12pt;">You can imagine a bright white or gold light deep down inside and see their magnificence, their warm love, and the beauty that we all are inside, and then tell your partner what you see.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 31.5pt; margin-right: 13.5pt; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 31.5pt; margin-right: 13.5pt; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 31.5pt; margin-right: 13.5pt; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">• Next you might want to do the Namaste Greeting. Holding hands up in a prayer position, hands intertwined if desired, come close enough now to almost be touching foreheads and repeat the following together: <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">“The Divine in me, recognizes, and honors, the Divine in You – Namaste.”</i> On saying Namaste, bow slightly to touch foreheads, and notice that your partner’s two eyes have merged into one – symbolic of the one we all are. Give your partner (or yourself) a nice hug, and then slowly separate and move apart.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 31.5pt; margin-right: 13.5pt; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p>Even if the only contact you have all day with your beloved is this one, it will give you the glue and sweetness you need to stay energetically connected with each other. Namaste…</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><u><span style="font-family: Tahoma;">About the Writer</span></u></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; text-autospace: none;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #0e0e0e; font-size: xx-small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; text-autospace: none;"><span style="color: #0e0e0e;">Author, coach and trainer, Toni De Marco, has an extensive background in health, wholeness, and relationships which include sexuality. Her expertise is available for private coaching, group trainings (including teleseminars and Webinars), and facilitating trainings around the globe that are transformative and often life changing.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; text-autospace: none;"><span style="color: #0e0e0e; font-size: 16pt;"><br />
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</u></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; text-autospace: none;"><b><span style="font-family: Tahoma;">Toni's Affiliate TeleSeminar Series Program Easy Sign Up</span></b><span style="font-family: Tahoma;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Tahoma;">First, sign up <a href="https://www.mcssl.com/SYS/?m=194891&c=s"><b><span style="text-decoration: none;">here</span></b></a> to become an affiliate. You only have to fill out the fields in bold for now. Second, check your email for the instructions. You will be sending a ready-made email to your friends to let them know about my tele-seminar series, “5 Simple Secrets to a Hot & Juicy Relationship.”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 16pt;"><br />
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</u></span></div><div class="MsoNormal">Please ask for a free short-survey form in which you can apply and/or receive more info about a phone or in-person evaluation with Toni. Small group sessions are also available by placing your name on Toni’s list. Please send requests or inquiries to <a href="mailto:globaltoni@gmail.com">globaltoni@gmail.com</a>.</div></div>Toni De Marcohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03965762095049185002noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435097804040790818.post-80342974917047538032011-12-15T13:08:00.000-08:002014-03-29T16:32:11.021-07:00The Audience for Relate>Love>Sex -- Have a Hot & Juicy Relationship by Opening to the Love Within©<style> <!-- /* Font Definitions */ @font-face {font-family:Arial; panose-1:2 11 6 4 2 2 2 2 2 4; mso-font-charset:0; mso-generic-font-family:auto; mso-font-pitch:variable; mso-font-signature:3 0 0 0 1 0;} @font-face {font-family:"Courier New"; panose-1:2 7 3 9 2 2 5 2 4 4; mso-font-charset:0; mso-generic-font-family:auto; mso-font-pitch:variable; mso-font-signature:3 0 0 0 1 0;} @font-face {font-family:Wingdings; panose-1:5 2 1 2 1 8 4 8 7 8; mso-font-charset:2; mso-generic-font-family:auto; mso-font-pitch:variable; mso-font-signature:0 0 65536 0 -2147483648 0;} @font-face {font-family:Cambria; panose-1:2 4 5 3 5 4 6 3 2 4; mso-font-charset:0; mso-generic-font-family:auto; mso-font-pitch:variable; mso-font-signature:3 0 0 0 1 0;} @font-face {font-family:Tahoma; panose-1:2 11 6 4 3 5 4 4 2 4; mso-font-charset:0; mso-generic-font-family:auto; mso-font-pitch:variable; mso-font-signature:3 0 0 0 1 0;} @font-face {font-family:"Times New Roman \(Arabic\)"; panose-1:0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0; mso-font-charset:77; mso-generic-font-family:roman; mso-font-format:other; mso-font-pitch:auto; mso-font-signature:8195 0 0 0 65 0;} @font-face {font-family:"Bookman Old Style"; panose-1:2 5 6 4 5 5 5 2 2 4; mso-font-charset:0; mso-generic-font-family:auto; mso-font-pitch:variable; mso-font-signature:3 0 0 0 1 0;} /* Style Definitions */ p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal {mso-style-parent:""; margin:0in; margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family:Cambria; mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman";} a:link, span.MsoHyperlink {color:blue; text-decoration:underline; text-underline:single;} a:visited, span.MsoHyperlinkFollowed {mso-style-noshow:yes; color:purple; text-decoration:underline; text-underline:single;} @page Section1 {size:8.5in 11.0in; margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; mso-header-margin:.5in; mso-footer-margin:.5in; mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 {page:Section1;} /* List Definitions */ @list l0 {mso-list-id:1682390512; mso-list-type:hybrid; mso-list-template-ids:-1395874304 -350466040 67698691 67698693 67698689 67698691 67698693 67698689 67698691 67698693;} @list l0:level1 {mso-level-start-at:12; mso-level-number-format:bullet; mso-level-text:; mso-level-tab-stop:.5in; mso-level-number-position:left; text-indent:-.25in; font-family:Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family:Wingdings;} @list l0:level2 {mso-level-number-format:bullet; mso-level-text:o; mso-level-tab-stop:1.0in; mso-level-number-position:left; text-indent:-.25in; font-family:"Courier New"; mso-bidi-font-family:Wingdings;} @list l0:level3 {mso-level-number-format:bullet; mso-level-text:; mso-level-tab-stop:1.5in; mso-level-number-position:left; text-indent:-.25in; font-family:Wingdings;} ol {margin-bottom:0in;} ul {margin-bottom:0in;} --></style><br />
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<span style="font-family: "; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-line-height: 150%;">It’s generally agreed that they were born between 1946 and 1964.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-line-height: 150%;">In 2011 that makes them between 47 to 56 years old.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-line-height: 150%;">There are 77 million in the US</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-line-height: 150%;">and represent 29% of the population.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-line-height: 150%;">Make a difference</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-line-height: 150%;">Leave a legacy</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-line-height: 150%;">Rediscover their youth</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-line-height: 150%;">Maximize their wealth</span></div>
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Toni De Marcohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03965762095049185002noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435097804040790818.post-41151326704735057542011-09-25T12:15:00.000-07:002011-09-25T12:19:57.222-07:00Answer to Question About Tantra and the Light Article<style> <!-- /* Font Definitions */ @font-face {font-family:Cambria; panose-1:2 4 5 3 5 4 6 3 2 4; mso-font-charset:0; mso-generic-font-family:auto; mso-font-pitch:variable; mso-font-signature:3 0 0 0 1 0;} @font-face {font-family:Tahoma; panose-1:2 11 6 4 3 5 4 4 2 4; mso-font-charset:0; mso-generic-font-family:auto; mso-font-pitch:variable; mso-font-signature:3 0 0 0 1 0;} /* Style Definitions */ p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal {mso-style-parent:""; margin:0in; margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family:Cambria; mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman";} @page Section1 {size:8.5in 11.0in; margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; mso-header-margin:.5in; mso-footer-margin:.5in; mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 {page:Section1;} --> </style> <div style="mso-element:para-border-div;border:solid windowtext 1.0pt; mso-border-alt:solid windowtext .5pt;padding:4.0pt 7.0pt 4.0pt 8.0pt"> <p class="MsoNormal" style="border:none;mso-border-alt:solid windowtext .5pt; padding:0in;mso-padding-alt:4.0pt 7.0pt 4.0pt 8.0pt">If you’ve read my blog from September 22, you may have a question similar to the one that one of my readers had.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="border:none;mso-border-alt:solid windowtext .5pt; padding:0in;mso-padding-alt:4.0pt 7.0pt 4.0pt 8.0pt"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="border:none;mso-border-alt:solid windowtext .5pt; padding:0in;mso-padding-alt:4.0pt 7.0pt 4.0pt 8.0pt">Regarding the paragraph:</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="border:none;mso-border-alt:solid windowtext .5pt; padding:0in;mso-padding-alt:4.0pt 7.0pt 4.0pt 8.0pt">“Sooner or later, everyone engaged in the practice of these techniques will see the light. Practiced faithfully, these techniques not only help to experience the pleasurable release of orgasm, but when mastered, will eventually lead to riding waves of orgasmic bliss. This experience expands beyond what is considered average sexual practice (where within about 15 minutes one or both sexual partners experience orgasm/ejaculation), into the higher conscious realms where bodies disappear and one can merge with one’s partner and the Divine simultaneously –</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="border:none;mso-border-alt:solid windowtext .5pt; padding:0in;mso-padding-alt:4.0pt 7.0pt 4.0pt 8.0pt"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="border:none;mso-border-alt:solid windowtext .5pt; padding:0in;mso-padding-alt:4.0pt 7.0pt 4.0pt 8.0pt">a point at which sex almost becomes irrelevant....”</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="border:none;mso-border-alt:solid windowtext .5pt; padding:0in;mso-padding-alt:4.0pt 7.0pt 4.0pt 8.0pt"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="border:none;mso-border-alt:solid windowtext .5pt; padding:0in;mso-padding-alt:4.0pt 7.0pt 4.0pt 8.0pt">“WHAT??????,” my reader exclaimed, “Not sure what this means? Do you dissolve? Disappear? Turn into vapor? Forgive me, not trying to sound like a dodo bird...”</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="border:none;mso-border-alt:solid windowtext .5pt; padding:0in;mso-padding-alt:4.0pt 7.0pt 4.0pt 8.0pt"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="border:none;mso-border-alt:solid windowtext .5pt; padding:0in;mso-padding-alt:4.0pt 7.0pt 4.0pt 8.0pt"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="border:none;mso-border-alt:solid windowtext .5pt; padding:0in;mso-padding-alt:4.0pt 7.0pt 4.0pt 8.0pt">This simply means that the ecstasy becomes so great that even though you are still in your bodies, that as they merge into one (with each other and with Divine consciousness), and although you probably are having sex, you also can just stop and hug or hold hands or whatever, and the waves of ecstasy will continue for quite some time because of the expanded state of consciousness that you are experiencing. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="border:none;mso-border-alt:solid windowtext .5pt; padding:0in;mso-padding-alt:4.0pt 7.0pt 4.0pt 8.0pt"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="border:none;mso-border-alt:solid windowtext .5pt; padding:0in;mso-padding-alt:4.0pt 7.0pt 4.0pt 8.0pt">It's one of those things that you almost have to have experienced to know what I mean. So for all intensive purposes, you could actually have the sensation of dissolution, disappearing, and/or turning into vapor if that is where the ecstasy takes you. Just picture a really good LSD trip but on the “natch.”</p> </div>Toni De Marcohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03965762095049185002noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435097804040790818.post-82306870454953946002011-09-22T01:49:00.000-07:002011-09-22T02:04:00.366-07:00Seeing the Light with Tantra-- Sacred Sexuality<style> <!-- /* Font Definitions */ @font-face {font-family:Arial; panose-1:2 11 6 4 2 2 2 2 2 4; mso-font-charset:0; mso-generic-font-family:auto; mso-font-pitch:variable; mso-font-signature:3 0 0 0 1 0;} @font-face {font-family:Cambria; panose-1:2 4 5 3 5 4 6 3 2 4; mso-font-charset:0; mso-generic-font-family:auto; mso-font-pitch:variable; mso-font-signature:3 0 0 0 1 0;} @font-face {font-family:"Lucida Handwriting"; panose-1:3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1; mso-font-charset:0; mso-generic-font-family:auto; mso-font-pitch:variable; mso-font-signature:3 0 0 0 1 0;} /* Style Definitions */ p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal {mso-style-parent:""; margin:0in; margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family:Arial; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family:Arial; mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman";} h1 {mso-style-link:"Heading 1 Char"; mso-margin-top-alt:auto; margin-right:0in; mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; margin-left:0in; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; mso-outline-level:1; font-size:24.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; color:black; mso-bidi-font-weight:bold;} p.MsoHeader, li.MsoHeader, div.MsoHeader {mso-style-link:"Header Char"; margin:0in; margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; tab-stops:center 3.0in right 6.0in; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family:Arial; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family:Arial; mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman";} p.MsoFooter, li.MsoFooter, div.MsoFooter {mso-style-link:"Footer Char"; margin:0in; margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; tab-stops:center 3.0in right 6.0in; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family:Arial; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family:Arial; mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman";} a:link, span.MsoHyperlink {color:blue; text-decoration:underline; text-underline:single;} a:visited, span.MsoHyperlinkFollowed {mso-style-noshow:yes; color:purple; text-decoration:underline; text-underline:single;} span.Heading1Char {mso-style-name:"Heading 1 Char"; mso-style-locked:yes; mso-style-link:"Heading 1"; mso-ansi-font-size:24.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size:24.0pt; color:black; mso-font-kerning:18.0pt; font-weight:bold;} span.HeaderChar {mso-style-name:"Header Char"; mso-style-locked:yes; mso-style-link:Header; mso-ansi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; font-family:Arial; mso-ascii-font-family:Arial; mso-hansi-font-family:Arial;} span.FooterChar {mso-style-name:"Footer Char"; mso-style-locked:yes; mso-style-link:Footer; mso-ansi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; font-family:Arial; mso-ascii-font-family:Arial; mso-hansi-font-family:Arial;} @page Section1 {size:8.5in 11.0in; margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; mso-header-margin:.5in; mso-footer-margin:.5in; mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 {page:Section1;} --> </style> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><u><br /></u></i></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"> The spiritual practice of Tantra* embodies the concept of seeing the light in everyone. For millennia in India, one honored the Divine spark in another with the greeting Namaste, which translates to <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">“The Divine in me recognizes and honors the Divine in you.” </i>It is a greeting still used to this day in India to show respect for another person. Similar to meditation, using the Namaste greeting brings attention to the Light within, instantly putting conscious attention into the mind, or “Universal consciousness” of, being at one with the higher self and with Source. <span style="font-size:10.0pt;">[*Tantra comes from the Sanskrit<i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"> tan,</i> meaning “to weave,” “continue,” “propagate,” and “endure.”]</span><b><span style=" Lucida Handwriting";font-family:";font-size:10.0pt;color:#5B005B;" > <span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><span style="mso-field-code:"HYPERLINK \0022http\:\/\/www\.ecstaticlove\.net\/index\.htm\0022 \\t \0022_parent\0022""></span><span style="mso-field-code:"HYPERLINK \0022http\:\/\/www\.ecstaticlove\.net\/index\.htm\0022 \\t \0022_parent\0022""></span></span></b> </p><p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9-Bd6rY0-t2UTKJGK4s02zg-7dRtgX1QIrk2BHokKP0S5ZXeDRRDcwwbKn9rfTHk7snGSVLWNr7mtbNPNwWSDKGkwpgUz0oJWt4xfiXLnxb6Z0lsHVzeP9epeO5-w8yA3j1IeJGOXa1s/s1600/Shakti-Shiva+Dual+Image.09-21-11.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 164px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9-Bd6rY0-t2UTKJGK4s02zg-7dRtgX1QIrk2BHokKP0S5ZXeDRRDcwwbKn9rfTHk7snGSVLWNr7mtbNPNwWSDKGkwpgUz0oJWt4xfiXLnxb6Z0lsHVzeP9epeO5-w8yA3j1IeJGOXa1s/s200/Shakti-Shiva+Dual+Image.09-21-11.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5655105394200551922" border="0" /></a><span style="mso-no-proof: yes">Tantra <span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>is one of the only traditions</span> in the world that holds sex as a sacred spiritual practice.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>In ancient times, making love was given as an offering to “the Gods” [or to The One God, embodying all Gods]. After all, according to many religions, God created us in her own image. If that were true, our sexual body parts, and our natural desire for sex, is also God/Goddess-like. Perhaps it was the Creator’s intention to have sex not only as a means of propagation, but to be an endless source of pleasure through merging with the Divine -- an actual vehicle to enlightenment. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">The very early practice of Tantra (Circa 10,000BC) encompassed literally <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">all</i> of India until sometime before 5,000BC, when India was devastated by attacks from Eastern barbarians.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Temples destroyed, and peoples scattered, Tantra became a lost art. However, over the millennia, its remnants eventually evolved into today’s religions in India</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Tantra had a brief revival during the Brahmanism Period (of asceticism and repression of bodily pleasures) as an antidote to the harshness favored by Monks and others practicing this religion.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Very little of how Tantra <span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>was once practiced in the East still exists today, but the sacredness of sex is still carried on in Western countries which have taken on the moniker of Tantra <span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>as a means to bring sex back into the importance and position which it once enjoyed in the East. In the last 20 or 30 years, Western holistic practitioners have often been drawn to the practice of Tantra and have added their own healing modalities to the mix. So yet a further evolution of Tantra is in process.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">One process that <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">did</i> carry over from ancient times is a series of techniques practiced to induce prolonged bliss. Streaming orgasms, as it is sometimes called, is considered natural for women, but ancient India knew that men, too, could learn to withhold releasing, thus creating an opening to experience prolonged pleasure, much like women do.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">In learning the techniques for blissful streaming, practiced by both men and women alike, one has many opportunities to offer ecstatic explosions of light and ecstasy to the Divine, in gratitude for the heavenly sensation of merging man, woman, and Divinity all into One.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Practicing the techniques themselves can be likened both to meditation and certain Marshall Arts techniques, including breathing and moving breath and energy up through the spine, passing through all the Chakras. This practice is often referred to as “raising the Kundalini.” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>It especially engages the vibrational energy of the Third-Eye Chakra – that of opening to “the light” – the Divine spark within.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">It is no surprise that the Third-Eye Chakra is also known to be the center responsible for extra-sensory perception -- clairvoyance, clair-audience, and clair-sentience (kinesiological or “feeling” perception beyond the physical norm). The conscious intent of shooting breath (oxygen) and energy up into the middle of the brain also energizes and activates the pituitary and pineal glands, causing a release of <span style="mso-bidi- ;font-family:Arial;color:black;" >opioids</span> -- pleasurable hormones like endorphins and <span style="mso-bidi-;font-family:Arial;color:black;" >oxytocin</span>. <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXnh4D1GmcQGfcdu7VhOqTzSpJoBSBE-tRo23VAHqIvrc2C0b4A6VthzMdc3nI9SnYInE1sfmLQ7N10olBN6LnpcCkdrgI3VJDMY_iZyiMO5khi68vZlV2cnrHstVaUPvPOvSggobgdog/s1600/00223042.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 203px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXnh4D1GmcQGfcdu7VhOqTzSpJoBSBE-tRo23VAHqIvrc2C0b4A6VthzMdc3nI9SnYInE1sfmLQ7N10olBN6LnpcCkdrgI3VJDMY_iZyiMO5khi68vZlV2cnrHstVaUPvPOvSggobgdog/s320/00223042.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5655106777265316690" border="0" /></a></p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Thus releasing light or “seeing the light” is a part of sexual bliss. People can learn to focus on bringing energy and breath to and through the Third-Eye Chakra.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>They can “add to” and visualize the pleasure associated with this blissful center as they roll their eyes back into their head (as though looking at this center in the middle of the brain) in the ecstatic experience of “seeing of the light.” Ecstatic experiences have been painted by the great masters as “looking up” beyond the normal vision into the bliss of the Third-Eye. [In one of Picasso’s early works, we see a freshly seduced peasant girl lying on a haystack, eyes rolled back in head, obviously satiated and oblivious to the world.*]<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Consciously accessing the Third-Eye Center is magnified by the pumping action of the PC (<span style="mso-bidi-;font-family:Arial;color:black;" >pubococcygeus</span>) muscle (often referred to as Kegel <span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>exercises), as it shoots energy up the spine and to the top of the head.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Sooner or later, everyone engaged in the practice of these techniques will see the light. Practiced faithfully, these techniques not only help to experience the pleasurable release of orgasm, but when mastered, will eventually lead to riding waves of orgasmic bliss. This experience expands beyond what is considered average sexual practice (where within about 15 minutes one or both sexual partners experience orgasm/ejaculation), into the higher conscious realms where bodies disappear and one can merge with one’s partner <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">and</i> the Divine simultaneously – a point at which sex almost becomes irrelevant.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <span style="font-family:Arial;mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-Times New Roman";mso-ansi-language:EN-US;mso-fareast-language: EN-USfont-family:";font-size:12.0pt;" >In this rarefied atmosphere one no longer has to have actual bodily contact/sex in order to continue releasing orgasmic waves of pleasure. This “beyond sex” experience – riding the Tantric “wave of pleasure” that exists into Eternity is tapped or tuned-into like a frequency on your radio dial. Once there, very little effort need be expended to continue this magical ride on the never-ending wave of Love, Light and Bliss.</span>Toni De Marcohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03965762095049185002noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-435097804040790818.post-33080235151014633402011-09-22T00:21:00.001-07:002013-11-06T23:20:50.748-08:00Toni's Bio<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Times;">A thought leader and expert
in her field, Toni De Marco is an internationally renowned seminar leader,
speaker, and best selling author.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>She has published three books including “HE</span><b><span style="font-family: Times; mso-bidi-font-family: Gulim; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Gulim;">A</span></b><span style="font-family: Times;">RTGASM!”
— Increasing Intimacy & Ecstasy”</span><span style="font-family: Times; font-size: 8.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">©</span><span style="font-family: Times;"> recently published by Hay House’s Balboa Press.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times;">Ms. De Marco is a Dr. of
Metaphysics, has an extensive background in psychology, metaphysics, and
health, and is the founder of the Wellness Healing Center.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She was originally a cover girl of
“Super Model” fame who went on to writing and producing video and
television.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She produced current
DVD, “Tantric Partner Yoga,” as a tool to help couples to develop more intimacy
in their relationships.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Times; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;">Having been a well-known cover girl, actress, and author, Ms. De
Marco has been in the public eye for years: She has appeared on CBS’s “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Morning Show</i>,” ABC’s “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Good Morning America</i>,” and the “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Sally Show</i>.” She’s also appeared
on </span><u><span style="background: white; color: #333333; font-family: Times; mso-bidi-font-size: 8.0pt;">and produced </span></u><span style="color: black; font-family: Times; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;">segments of Regis Philbin’s, “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The Regis & Kathy Show</i>,” segments of
ESPN’s “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Business Times</i>,” and the TV
talk-show series, “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Making a Difference</i>.”
Her past and current creations include the best-selling book, “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The California Way to Natural Beauty</i>”
and its companion, “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The Natural Way to
Health and Beauty</i>” (published by Grosset & Dunlap), and the DVD
mentioned above, “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Tantric Partner Yoga</i>.” <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times;">Ms. De Marco’s serving as a
counselor and conduit for exponential learning in the human behavior arena, in
recent years has expanded into a world-wide seminar circuit in which she
established her “Heartgasm Relationships Trainings,” in such diverse places as
Sydney, Melbourne, Gold Coast, Byron Bay, Bali, Singapore, Thailand, and the
USA.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times;">The book, “Heartgasm!,” and
an upcoming DVD series, are focused on material Ms. De Marco facilitates in her
workshops about achieving relationship mastery and extraordinarily ecstatic
sacred sensual practices.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<u><span style="font-family: Times;">A Unique Perspective on
Sex <o:p></o:p></span></u></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times;">Ms. De Marco has a fresh and
unique perspective on “sex” – a word that she equates with “sensual.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She says, “Until a person can identify
or ‘merge’ with a higher self – the places possible to get to sensually and
orgasmically would be difficult to reach.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Merging with the Divine (continually existing in a state of ecstasy)
instantly creates self-realization and enlightenment.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times;">That’s part of what
“Heartgasm!” covers — getting to the ecstasy that is beyond one quick
release.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She says, “It is <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">because</i> she takes her cues from ancient
Eastern spiritual practices, that she has found a whole new perspective on how
really ‘wild’ sensuality can be.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>In order to go there consistently in a relationship, it helps to learn
to relate (hard to have sex with a partner you aren’t talking to) and learn to
love (especially yourself).<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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